How do you Start a Conversation, esp. with a member of the opposite sex? |
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| Well, first of all, you must
realize that your body language is more important than the words you
use. Wherever you are and whatever the situation, you must remember that
your composure and body language are the keys. I've watched a lot of guys approach a lot of women in my day. And I can usually tell within the first few seconds if the guy knows what he's doing with women... and if he's going to be successful. Most guys use submissive, apologetic body language and voice tones. They almost look as if they're pleading with a woman to give them approval, and like they're nervous and self-conscious about the whole event. In other words, most guys come across as wussies when they first approach women. On the other hand, the guys I know who are the most successful with women are the opposite. They're totally cool, calm and collected. They often approach a woman and begin the conversation like they would with an old friend. There is no apologetic body language and no sign of insecurity. They aren't there to find out if the woman is going to give them some approval. On the contrary, they are trying to find out if the woman meets their standards. Think about how you'd act if you were only interested in finding out if she's the kind of exceptional woman that you would like to get to know better, instead of being concerned about whether or not she's going to like you... big shift, isn't it? How to prepare mentally to approach women, what to say, and how to get their phone numbers... |